Kill Me Now!

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The author spends his time trying to find the ONE, his soulmate, that special someone that he will spend the rest of his life with. Where is she hiding? Have they crossed paths before? Is she out there? While searching for Ms. Right, the author goes looking for love and gets into the strangest...

Kill Me Now!

How to get your ex back, if you really want to!

My blog generally focuses on dating and relationships. But what happens when it all goes wrong? For me, I got a book out of it. I also met a wonderful woman! Today guest blogger Kevin Thompson wants to talk about How to get your ex back, that is if you really want to. Kevin writes about breakups and reconciliation at his blog and has joined us today to share some tips.

How To Get Your ex back

How to get your ex back

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If you and your girlfriend breakup, this pretty much means that your relationship with her was broken. You tried, probably your best, and it didn’t work. But some people are just hell bent on making a relationship work even though it ended. They’ll do anything to get their ex back. Well, if you are one of those guys than this article is for you.

First of all, you have to understand that if she broke up with you, your mind is in complete chaos. You will be feeling rejected and will probably be acting needy and desperate. This neediness is going to drive her even further away and make her think the decision to breakup was the right one.

That’s why you should stop doing anything and everything that shows even the slightest sign of your neediness. This includes calling her, texting her, posting on her Facebook wall, standing outside her favorite coffee shop waiting for her to show up and even accidentally running into her. That is not fooling anybody.

As soon as you stop being needy, she is going to start wondering what the heck changed in you. In fact, it will be an instant attraction builder for you. She will start missing you and sooner or later, she is going to contact you. The more you pull away, the more she will try to push.

If she contacts you, you can even take it a step further and don’t answer her. This is going to make her a little mad but she will start wondering whether you have moved on. She will start to realize that she may lose you forever. This is when she is going to start remembering how awesome you were and how lucky she was to have you in her life.

Give it a few more days and then you contact her. A small text will do. However, just keep things light and be cool about everything. Make sure you don’t show any sign of neediness and act like you just want to catch up.

From this point on, you have to treat her like you would any other girl you want to start dating. You build up attraction slowly and then ask her out. Just make sure when you ask her out; you don’t make it completely obvious that you want to get back together. Take things slowly and make her fall in love with you again.

K. Thompson has been helping people with breakups for the past two years. He believes some relationships deserve another chance while some deserve to be ended forever. This article about “How to get your ex back” specifically discusses how to get your girlfriend back. 


Lawrence Fisher

Lawrence is a social media enthusiast and a blogger who loves writing about dating and promoting other authors. He is also a programmer with many years of experience. Check out his book and you will laugh. Do keep in touch with him on Facebook and follow him on Twitter and on Google+. You can email him at

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  • Rosalia Alecia

    I have a husband who cheats on me, drinks and as his wife he could hardly spend time or listen to me, i and my husband Mark are both from United state. I have tried all means to stop him from this urgly attitude but he never changed, he treats me like a slave, he stop loving me the way he used to and he now always come home late at night. I tried all means to make him love me back and change for good and i have also talked to his families concerning his attitude. I just got to know of Priest Abasi recently that he helps a lot of persons restore broken marriage,fertiliy issues,health issues and if you want to be rich and well known.i asked Priest Abasi if there is anyway to make him love me again and make him a good responsible husband. He promised to help me out, in just 4 days after the spell was done he started loving me again and now he is fully back to his righ senses, if you are looking for a genuine spell caster to help you with your marriage problems, to get your ex back or you are looking for solutions to your problems , i will advice you email Priest Abasi on

    • Katie

      Hi Rosalia. Thank you for sharing the contact details to Priest Abasi. I trust things are still going well between you and your husband.

  • Ahmed Ali

    Hi Kevin I just tried emailing you I want to know if it’s possible if you coach I would like to get my ex-boyfriend back but I think we have a really different and unique situation I live with him he’s going to move out but there are things that I shared about my life dark secrets has to contain with strippers and I have friends that are all in different places so he has like no respect for me plus his family is very important to him so I think I left a bad taste in their mouth they probably think I’m psycho and I’m not he thinks I’m an alcoholic with no direction and irresponsible let you know a lot of the things that he says are pretty mean he said that I don’t have confidence or low self-esteem lease to be in love happily and yes we both went through some trips is there anything that you can do to help me please

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